Have courage and be kind

When I hear details of unthinkable acts, my immediate reaction is to turn off the television or hide from social media. As I get older, I’m forced to burrow deeper into my hole because unthinkable acts seem to be happening on a more frequent basis than before. Since I refuse to listen to the bad stuff, I do what anyone in my position would do — I turn to fairytales.

If you haven’t seen Disney’s live-action version of Cinderella, I suggest you rent or purchase it immediately. I can honestly say that it is one of my favorite movies from 2015. It has everything you ever wanted in a fairytale, including a handsome prince. But more importantly, it has a strong, clear message for young girls (and this 40-year-old woman) which is woven throughout the entire storyline:

Have courage and be kind.

We learn about kindness as children. We are taught to be courteous to others, friendly toward new comers and generous with our neighbors and siblings. The act of sharing and serving is something that is somewhat easily understood. It’s the courageous part that requires a little more effort.

The dictionary defines courage as: “The ability to do something that frightens one, or makes one uncomfortable.”

In the book of Joshua, our favorite military man is instructed four times to have courage. Joshua is reminded that the Lord will be with him wherever he goes. This message was meant to encourage Joshua through war.

I think it’s meant for us too.

I may not be carrying a sword or wearing a helmet, but the battle is just as real. And we need to have courage. I need to have the courage to click the CNN.com link. I need to have the courage to recognize and accept that we live in a fallen world. I need to have the courage to let my heart yearn for so many broken people. I need to have the courage to face each day with the hope that I can make a difference in my little corner of a very big world. All I have to do is show up. The Lord will do the rest.

I choose to combat the hatred by praying, serving, and loving others well. When the grateful man, woman or child calls me her fairy godmother for the day, I can smile, knowing that this is bigger than pumpkin coaches and magical dresses. By simply having courage and being kind, joy will fill that moment, and hopefully, that person’s entire heart.

And it won’t expire at midnight.

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Sarah
Sarah

Beautiful piece of writing– you nailed. Peace, my friend.

Lincee

Thank you Sarah

Suzanne
Suzanne

Lincee, you are awesome! And courageous. And kind.
Thank you for sharing.

Lincee

Thank you Suzanne. I appreciate it!

Bethe

Yes! Yes! And amen! When in doubt, this is a time to love people BIGGER and BETTER than ever before. Neighbors down the street, people from the other side of the world – may love drive out fear and hate.

Lincee

Amen! Preach it Bethe!

amy a
amy a

Ah, this is good. I was just having a conversation about the fear side of this. Fear is easier than courage, but not worth it.

Karen

Well said, Amy, well said!

Lincee

Beautifully written Amy A

Kelli
Kelli

Sometimes you have to have courage because there are others who simply cannot.

Great post today, Lincee

Lincee

Well said Kelli!

Brandy
Brandy

Thank you for this reminder Lincee! I sure needed it today! 🙂

Karen
Karen

Beautiful post. It focuses on what we CAN do instead of what we can’t. Amen to that!

Lincee

Exactly. Change of perspective.

Christine
Christine

God bless you, dear.

Lincee

Thank you Christine!

Katie
Katie

I am inspired, Lincee! It takes courage to acknowledge what’s happening in the world and keep trying, but like you said, all we have to do is show up and the Lord will do the rest. That is courage, indeed!

Lincee

One day at a time Katie!

CO Kathleen
CO Kathleen

Beautifully said, Lincee. As always. Very grateful to hear your perspective and let in seep into my heart when I’ve been more angry and fed up with what happened in Paris.

Lincee

Thank you CO Kathleen.

evangeline
evangeline

so beautifully said!! thank you, I think we all needed that today!!!

Lincee

Why thank you evangeline!

kim
kim

Lincee, thank you for sharing some encouragement in this broken world. May we always put our trust in God even when things happen we can’t comprehend. He is always in control.

Lincee

You are more than welcome kim

Susie
Susie

A very nice post Lincee. My only suggestion is to get your info from Fox News instead of CNN. You only get a very liberal viewpoint if you’re listening to CNN.
Pray for Paris and Pray for the USA.

Lincee

Pray, pray, pray!

Barbara
Barbara

Lincee, thank you for your heartfelt comments. You reminded me that we can do something – pray. God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1.

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